Rishta center
Shadi insani zindagi ka sab se ahem faisla hota hai. Ye sirf do logon ka milan nahi balki do families ka rishta hota hai. Aaj ke daur mein rishta choose karna aur shadi ka faisla lena pehle se ziada mushkil ho gaya hai. Neeche kuch ahem points diye gaye hain jo har ladke aur ladki ko shadi se pehle zaroor dekhne chahiye:
1. Compatibility aur Understanding
Shadi ke liye sab se pehla factor compatibility hai. Har rishta us waqt successful hota hai jab dono log ek doosre ko samajhne ki koshish karein. Agar sochnay ka tareeqa, life goals aur values match na karen to zindagi mushkil ho jati hai.
2. Family Background aur Values
Family ka role bohot ahem hai. Achi family background, positive sochnay ka andaaz aur mutual respect ek healthy marriage ka buniyadi hissa hai. Aksar shadi ke baad sirf do log nahi balki do families ka taluq banta hai, is liye families ka achi tarah se samajhna zaroori hai.
3. Taleem aur Career
Shadi ke liye taleem aur career ka dekhna bhi zaroori hai. Taleem insan ke zehen aur soch ko shape karti hai, jabke career zindagi ko financial stability deta hai. Agar dono partners taleem aur career mein ek dosray ko support karein to zindagi behtareen guzar sakti hai.
4. Financial Stability
Rishta select karte waqt ye dekhna bohot zaroori hai ke financial stability hai ya nahi. Zindagi sirf mohabbat pe nahi chalti, balki practical cheezen bhi matter karti hain jaise ke ghar chalana, bachon ki taleem aur health.
5. Deen aur Akhlaq
Shadi sirf duniawi zarooraton ka naam nahi, balki ye ek ibadat bhi hai. Deen aur akhlaq dono partners ke andar bohot ahem role play karte hain. Jo insan deen aur achi akhlaq rakhta hai wo apne partner ka izzat karta hai aur zindagi ke har morh par saath deta hai.
6. Personality aur Nature
Shakl-surat kuch waqt tak hi asar karti hai, lekin asal mein insan ki personality aur nature hi zindagi bhar saath deti hai. Achi personality, positive soch aur naram mizaj partner ko zindagi asaan bana dete hain Har family ka social circle aur culture alag hota hai. Agar dono partner ek dosray ke social norms aur culture ko samajhne ki koshish karein to rishta aur mazboot ho jata hai..
7. Communication Skills
Healthy marriage ke liye communication skills bohot important hain. Jo log apni baat share karte hain aur samajhne ki koshish karte hain, unki shadi ziada successful hoti hai. Har misunderstanding ka hal sirf communication se nikalta hai.
8. Mutual Respect aur Trust
Shadi ka sab se mazboot pillar respect aur trust hai. Agar respect aur trust na ho to rishta kabhi mazboot nahi hota. Dono partners ko ek dosray ki izzat aur barabri ka lihaaz zaroor karna chahiye.
9. Emotional Support
Life mein ups and downs aate hain. Ek acha partner woh hota hai jo har mushkil waqt mein emotional support de. Rishta tabhi mazboot hota hai jab dono ek dosray ka sahara banein.
10. Compromise aur Sacrifice
Shadi mein perfect partner ki talash karna bekaar hai, kyun ke koi bhi insan perfect nahi hota. Rishta chalane ke liye dono ko thoda thoda compromise aur sacrifice karna parta hai. Yehi formula shadi ko lambe arsay tak chalata hai.
11. Social Understanding
Har family ka social circle aur culture alag hota hai. Agar dono partner ek dosray ke social norms aur culture ko samajhne ki koshish karein to rishta aur mazboot ho jata hai.
